To the Author(s) of this book.
I read the book twice, and still thought I'd pass with flying colors since I am inocent of a sex crime, thats all I want to say about that since I didn't follow the advise.
I learned that a polygragh is not admissable in court I Learned this during my polygraph when I literally gave up believing that this stupid test showed me lying and held out my hands to be hand cuffed when I was told that I was not being honest. This really threw my 17 year friend detective that was already having trouble believing I was being accused. They (the interrigators) both shot back physically in their seats saying, my name and then "the tests not that good, as a matter of fact, the results can not be used in court! I needed to be a man, and take the punishment I deserved and come clean.
I was shocked to learn this, and it might have been explained in this wonderful book, but I didn't catch it! I never will admit to doing what I was acused of doing, when I didn't do it. I would sooner be in jail for the rest of my life for something I didn't do than lie to take the easy way out - two years which was offered to me to be a man. Are we all that stupid?
I feel at this point that my accuser after almost a year might be coming clean this next week as she has asked to meet with me to discuss "We all make mistakes". I write this only because of this, as I've learned to not trust anyone anymore, especially my 28 year old daughter whom has learned that she may never see us again since we are moving out of the state to her unknown. The tough part is I still love her, and consider her one of the miracles of my life, the day of her birth. I am not accused of molesting her, I might add.
I will check back on this board for responses. I still refuse to give my real name, call me paranoid.