took the exam

[louise anderson]

I took a polygraph test to prove to my husband that I
had not cheated on him.  There were control questions
asked.  The examiners findings were that I had not
lied.  Now my husband will not accept these findings
claiming they were bogus.  Help!  Any other direction
to go in now ?  How to prove the truth ?

[Canadian Crusader]

Is this the same lady who was asking advice here a couple weeks ago and was advised that even if you "passed" your poly your husband probably would not believe it anyways?  Just wondering.

You don't need to prove the truth.  You need to work with your husband so that he believes what you say to him is the truth.  Noone here is going to help you find that.  I can only advise that you seek councelling.  Your only solution is a psychiatrist or psycologist.  Good luck.

[louise anderson]

no-I'm not the same lady-There must be a few of us.
He doesn't want counseling--he wants a fool-proof
test to know it for himself.  Stubborn mule !

[Kona]

Louise,

I was the guy that advised the other woman that her husband wouldn't accept the results of the polygraph, pass or fail.  No surprise there.

I can't believe that you would submit to a such a humiliating test at the behest of your control freak spouse.  If your husband won't agree to go to counseling, which he so desperately needs, you need to seriously reconsider your choice for a partner in life.  The very fact that he made you submit to such a test, and that you agreed to take it, speaks volumes about your low self-esteem, and his need to dominate and control you.  Get professional help now, or get a lawyer and ditch this loser.  

Wake up Louise!!!

Kona  

[Canadian Crusader]

I second the motion.  You are on a downhill slide in your relationship IMO.  Time to move on.