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Oct 15th, 2019 at 11:08pm
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Iím a very insecure person and wife. I seen emails more then friendly ones in my husbands work email. Where he told a younger woman that ďhis wife wouldnít like them LOLíing in email, especially with pretty girlsĒ ... I flew off the handle and later found out that for 2-3 weeks they were texting work gossip and banter back and forth via text at work. Of course all deleted and I could never read them.
Anyway he swore he hid it bc I over react, told her to keep it professional and apologized profusely. Well I could t let it go and asked him to take a polygraph to which he said absolutely.
We met the lady and she asked a little of the background... I told her about the deleted emails and texts and she looked at him and said you can get deleted things back just get them. He answered I couldnít we tried. To which she shot me a look.
She then asked if we should do a single issue test as itís 99 percent accurate so I agreed. All questions were Bout any form of sexual contact. She wrote the questions down asked him to read them and if he agreed to them to which he wrote yes. She then said you just wrote yes to having sex with the girl... which he jumbled around and said thatís not what I meant. And scribbled it out and wrote no. I immediately thought he failed. Heís a liar. So I feel like she did to but Iím not sure.
Anyway- he failed she said he failed really badly. We drove home before getting the results and he told me I owed him a new xbox for putting him through that because she asked him if he had sec with animals and an entire slur of questions that made him uncomfortable. I said good that means when you got to the real question it should have been easy to answer with no stress he said it was. She called on the phone on our drive home and said he failed. Miserably. He said he was waiting for balloons and a camera to pop out. He wouldnít come in the house slept in the driveway said he belongs in a mental hospital because he knows he didnít have sex with her in anyway or touch her. Cried he canít believe he put us in this situation.
The next day he paid 600 to take it again with a new place. I didnít go but I talked to the lady and set it up. Well he passed. So I have no idea what to believe. He passed on a different kind of test though asking if he ever had sex with anyone elSe since we have been married, asked if he had any sexual contact with the girl from work but this time the lady said her name idk why she could but the other lady couldnít. He said this lady made him feel more comfortable and he did call the other lady back to retake her test initially which I heard him.. he was kind and nice not accusing her just asked if her machine was callaborated and could he come there now and retake it.. to which she said only if you admit to touching. The girl in some way.. to which he said he canít admit that.. she said my results are 90 percent accurate especially on single issue tests. And I called her recently and told her he passed one and she said are you sure it was a single issue test itís more reliable and Iím certified. Well this other lady was certified to

Now idk what to believe. Did the first examiner have more experience, did she judge him do they? Is asking if you have sexy with animals normal? The other lady made my husband feel comfortable and asked him different questions like did you ever find her friends attractive... but I really donít think he ever has so was that a bad question? What in the actual heck!!!
I should prolly just leave ..
  
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Re: Husband Failed a single issue test!!
Reply #1 - Oct 16th, 2019 at 7:53am
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Polygraph "testing" is not 99% accurate nor is it 90% accurate. It has not been proven through peer-reviewed research to reliably work at better-than-chance levels under field conditions. See professor William G. Iacono's article, "Forensic 'Lie Detection': Procedures Without Scientific Basis":

https://antipolygraph.org/articles/article-018.shtml

It would be foolhardy to make any decisions about your marriage on the basis of polygraph chart readings.
  

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Reply #2 - Oct 16th, 2019 at 2:55pm
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Thank you for responding! Iím just so confused how someone can be so admit about my life decision. She said sheís not a counselor itís her job to give me the truth!

Then thereís another lady same credentials saying Iím sorry but thatís not the truth he passed.

You would think even to show reliability the second one would have failed him purposely. She just said thereís no signs of deception.

I really wonder if itís bc I went to the first one crying saying I feel like heís lying and the second one he sought out super eager to show his innocence.

I felt like she judged his guilt when we were talking by the back handed looks she kept giving me. However, I appreciated that bc I wanted her to really dig deep.

Do they judge when they meet a person?
Are single issue tests really the most accurate?
Why would he respond more to did you do this... if he knows he didnít.. versus did you sleep with a dog? Can the lie detector register embarrassment and shame? Heís told me heís so embarrassed about deleting texts and the situation he put us in but he didnít say when asked that question he felt weird he just said I told the truth.

He did say she kept saying stop moving, I know counter measures I will stop the test. He said he was so uncomfortable but then again thatís the point isnít it?
Frustrating  Cry
  
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Reply #3 - Oct 16th, 2019 at 3:43pm
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Do they judge when they meet a person?


Yes, and the polygraph operator's subjective feelings regarding whether or not a person is truthful can influence outcomes.

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Are single issue tests really the most accurate?


Perhaps to the extent that with single-issue "tests," there are fewer questions for the operator to be wrong about. But both single-issue and mutiple-issue polygraph "tests" are voodoo science.

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Why would he respond more to did you do this... if he knows he didnít.. versus did you sleep with a dog?


Who knows? Perhaps because he correctly understood that the first question was the most important one?

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Can the lie detector register embarrassment and shame?


Embarrassment, shame, and a multitude of other things can result in reactions measurable by the polygraph instrument.

For more on why polygraph chart readings are not to be relied upon, I recommend you watch season 7, episode 5 of Penn & Teller: Bullshit!, which is about lie detectors. It is presently available online here:

https://www.bitchute.com/video/JbcdYjQzdx6i/
  

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Reply #4 - Oct 16th, 2019 at 4:31pm
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Thank you for being so kind
  
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Reply #5 - Oct 16th, 2019 at 4:37pm
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Sorry, one other question. Does her number mean anything? She said to fail ur at a -4 or something she said sheís so confident heís a liar bc he was at a -22 or something. She said clear as day accurate?! Do the numbers mean something to you?

My husband said they do to him??? He said if he were to accuse me of sleeping with someone else and I had no proof I didnít and then I sat in a chair knowing we had a home, 3 kids and that your spouse is crying ... that of course he would react when the question is asked?! I guess Iím just thinking well if someone said to be did u sleep with such and such I would go no-  he goes yea but be threatened with divorce and shaming yourself and kids with a machine hooked up to u... he said wouldnít I be a fuck yard if answering that under those circumstances didnít scare me?!??!??  Uggggg
  
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Sorry, one other question. Does her number mean anything? She said to fail ur at a -4 or something she said sheís so confident heís a liar bc he was at a -22 or something. She said clear as day accurate?! Do the numbers mean something to you?


You need to understand that polygraph chart readings have no scientific basis, and hence no diagnostic value, whatsoever. Whether the score is -4 or -22, it doesn't matter. It's all bullshit.

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My husband said they do to him??? He said if he were to accuse me of sleeping with someone else and I had no proof I didnít and then I sat in a chair knowing we had a home, 3 kids and that your spouse is crying ... that of course he would react when the question is asked?! I guess Iím just thinking well if someone said to be did u sleep with such and such I would go no-† he goes yea but be threatened with divorce and shaming yourself and kids with a machine hooked up to u... he said wouldnít I be a fuck yard if answering that under those circumstances didnít scare me?!??!??† Uggggg


How can you prove that you haven't been unfaithful to your husband? If he were to accuse you of infidelity and demand that you report to a polygraph operator to be tested, how would you feel? Indignant? Angry? Scared? Worried about the possible outcome for you and your children?

That might be how your husband felt.
  

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