Despite my shattered state of mind, I will attempt to describe this event with some logic:
After returning from a 2 day deer hunt sunday, my ex
proceeded to place his rifle back in his large steel safe.
he then realized his "emergency/mad $" was missing.
For the last 5 yrs. he has made almost a "ritual" of checking his wallet each night and removing the $1 bills
and coins.It amounted to $8,363 (90%of this in $1bills)and several hundred dollars of rolled quarters.
There were no signs of any forced entry to the safe or house. Our 18yo son, a longtime friend(22yo male) named Ike who has lived with them over a yr and another 18yo friend of my son were the only people given permission to be there.The "guest" and my son have been friends since grade school and he has slept over and visited their home hundreds of times. Ike is considered "family". My ex took him "under his wing" when Ike's father died many yrs ago. He has always been a "role model" and compaion for my son. And he has even worked for my ex . the last year.
Expecting to find nothing, my ex and I searched EVERY
inch of the house for the $ or any indication/clue of what had happened. To our complete shock and dismay, we found one of the "wrappers" in the inside pocket of Ike's coat. The $1 bills were wrapped in bundles with the amt of each written on the wrapper.
This wrapper had $260 written on it. BUT the Worst was
the short straws and apparent drug parapanilia found hidden in Ike's room. We were both devastated and deeply concerned about an obvios drug problem.
Still in disbelief, we called the police to report the theft.
They took fingerprints and had each one of the boys take the cvsa. (Each one had already denied any knowledge of the theft and quickly agreed to the test
with no hesitation
And now : Ike passed the test. The other boy passed
except for 1 question - "Do you know who did it?"
My son failed the test.
I'm shocked. He has never lied to us to my knowledge.
I always told him:I can handle anything you tell me,
but I cannot handle a lie.
He's no saint.He has experimented with pot and even
exstacy. He answered when I asked and I told him how I felt and pointed out all of the dangers. I have talked to
him for years about drugs and sex. Thank God he hates the taste of alcohol. And he adamently denies going
near the safe and any knowlege re:missing $.
I WANT TO BELIEVE MY SON, BUT I ALSO WANT TO GET HIM HELP IF NEEDED. Is his failure of the test absolute proof that he is lying?????
I would appreciate any comments,insight or wisdom!!
THANK YOU!!!
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