Quote from: RoamingBack on Feb 07, 2012, 12:30 PMUltimately as these types of real qualities are less and less important we will find more and more liars and cheats and abusers who've got no conscience, have no emotions or feelings about their mistakes however great or small, filling jobs that are significant to society's continuance. Sad days ahead.What's upsetting is how these people are suddenly better qualified to find work than you are. It's as though one needs to borrow some of these otherwise negative attributes to assure the job desired.
Quote from: RoamingBack on Feb 07, 2012, 12:30 PMWhen the poly was done I failed the question (singular) about 'ever physically hurting a spouse during an argument' (the comment was 'you had a problem with that question).If this was the wording of the question, it was a poor choice. Even inserting the adverb "physically" does not remove enough ambiguity--getting an upset stomach, or even crying can be rationalized as "physical." Even the definition of an "argument" can be subjective. A proper question would have been "Did you ever hit, strike or kick your spouse?"