Post reply

The message has the following error or errors that must be corrected before continuing:
Warning: this topic has not been posted in for at least 120 days.
Unless you're sure you want to reply, please consider starting a new topic.
Attachments: (Clear attachments)
Restrictions: 4 per post (4 remaining), maximum total size 192 KB, maximum individual size 64.00 MB
Uncheck the attachments you no longer want attached
Click or drag files here to attach them.
(Clear attachments)
Other options
Verification:
Please leave this box empty:
Type the letters shown in the picture
Listen to the letters / Request another image

Type the letters shown in the picture:
What color are school buses in the United States?:
Shortcuts: ALT+S post or ALT+P preview

Topic summary

Posted by Canadian Crusader
 - Apr 30, 2004, 01:38 PM
I second the motion.  You are on a downhill slide in your relationship IMO.  Time to move on.
Posted by Kona
 - Apr 30, 2004, 05:13 AM
Louise,

I was the guy that advised the other woman that her husband wouldn't accept the results of the polygraph, pass or fail.  No surprise there.

I can't believe that you would submit to a such a humiliating test at the behest of your control freak spouse.  If your husband won't agree to go to counseling, which he so desperately needs, you need to seriously reconsider your choice for a partner in life.  The very fact that he made you submit to such a test, and that you agreed to take it, speaks volumes about your low self-esteem, and his need to dominate and control you.  Get professional help now, or get a lawyer and ditch this loser.  

Wake up Louise!!!

Kona  

Posted by louise anderson
 - Apr 30, 2004, 03:45 AM
no-I'm not the same lady-There must be a few of us.
He doesn't want counseling--he wants a fool-proof
test to know it for himself.  Stubborn mule !
Posted by Canadian Crusader
 - Apr 29, 2004, 06:48 PM
Is this the same lady who was asking advice here a couple weeks ago and was advised that even if you "passed" your poly your husband probably would not believe it anyways?  Just wondering.

You don't need to prove the truth.  You need to work with your husband so that he believes what you say to him is the truth.  Noone here is going to help you find that.  I can only advise that you seek councelling.  Your only solution is a psychiatrist or psycologist.  Good luck.
Posted by louise anderson
 - Apr 29, 2004, 06:31 PM
I took a polygraph test to prove to my husband that I
had not cheated on him.  There were control questions
asked.  The examiners findings were that I had not
lied.  Now my husband will not accept these findings
claiming they were bogus.  Help!  Any other direction
to go in now ?  How to prove the truth ?