HERE IS A REVISION FOR CLARIFICATION.
Okay... For over a year now, to no avail, I have been defending my character from things my former wife has been saying about me. This has been damaging to my reputation and as a result I have been suffering from a serious degree of stress and lots of anxiety attacks. Finally, after making noise to anyone who would listen, I was able to arrange a polygraph at the police department.
I arrived for the exam 15 minutes beforehand. I was not really stressed, I was however anxious to finally resolve this issue. I didn't feel any need for stress because all I wanted was the truth anyhow. But I admit that I was anxious about the process (the unknown). I actually thought a polygraph was something that was put on my head to read brainwaves. That's how naive I was to the process.
Anyway, everything up until
after the polygraph went well (I think anyway) - pretty much just as I have read in the manual the faciliators of this site published - something I should have read it before the test.
Everything seemed fine and cordial. The introductions:
"Tell me about yourself";
"What do you admire the most in people?";
"What do you dislike the most in people?";
"How honest would I rate myself out of 100?; Ummm, stuff like that.
Then went into some sort of pre-test questionaire. This is when he asked what I now know as 'control questions'.
"Have you ever lied about something serious?";
"Have you ever disappointed anyone?" (or something like that);
"Have you ever done anything you regretted?" (Or ashamed, or something like that). In all there were four control questions.
In this same phase of the process we also went through the other six questions I would be asked during the exam. Two were something like:
"Is my name Corey?" and
"Am I in the city where I live?" Four were questions that related to the issue I was increasingly stressed about, and the remainder were as I already mentioned the control type questions -
but he didn't call them control questions, he called them "safety questions". From there, he hooked me up to the machine and had me take a card (laminated cards with numbers on them - about 6-8 cards to choose from) and memorize it. After communicating some numbers, he told me the number I had picked - which was correct. So at this point I was more assured than ever on the validity of the exam.
The polygrapher told me I reacted well to this test and would do well. GREAT!
So we continued with the actual test - three times. I mean three times he went through the same questions in different order. Each time saying the test is about to begin and the test is now over.
Then he unhooked the laptop computer and said he was going to review the results and asked what I thought they would show. Duh!
About ten or fifteen minutes later, he came back and turned into an other person. At this point I was confused. He didn't tell me how I did, but he did tell me
"it was obvious that I was hiding something" (or something along that line). When I kept answering that same question over and over and over and over again - like literally 30 or 40 times, maybe even more - I told him he was harrassing me.
He used statements I made at the beginning of our meeting, like when I told him I admire honesty in people the most, he said I should be honest. I laughed at him and told him that's why I was there. I was getting insulted and visibly agitated.
In this time, he really kept harping on any knowledge I had of the polygraph. I already gave him this answer at the beginning of the meeting so I was curious why he kept asking after the test was done. That started to put the red lights on for me, and infact the reason why I started looking for sites like this. Pretty funny when I think about it.
He asked me what question upset me the most. I explained that I felt like he was trying to get me to lie to his "safety questions". He basically told me to say 'no' to the questions. I mean, when we reviewed them I gave him an answer to each of them, but he told me other than that time... I kept trying to intercept him, but he just pushed. That upset me - and confused me (until I read the manual, of course).
I already confronted him about harrassing me about questions I already answered truthfully to - including in the polygraph. I was getting annoyed and after 25 minutes or so of what I feel was abusive behaviour (defintely much different from the person I met when when I came in) I got up and left saying that I don't have to put up with this. He went chasing me down the hall - well followed me, although it felt like chasing. I ignored him and left.
I felt betrayed and tricked into the process and was shaking with anger when I left.
I do not know how to get the reults of this test.
Do they mail them to you or something? How long does it generally take to get the results? I left a message on voicemail to have the charts, results, video and audio of the "interrogation". I gave him my lawyers contact information and told him not to contact me again.
So, again,
how can I get this information? It must be available to me under the Freedom of Information Act.
If I have the charts, can an independent polygrapher examine them and come to a conclusion? Or do I have to go through that process again? (Something I won't even consider).
Here's how I feel about my polygraph experience: I believe I passed the exam - I have to believe it, there is no justice otherwise; however, I have to wonder why the polygrapher behaved the way he did after the test. I feel he thought I couldn't have passed it and therefore must have cheated (something i didn't even know you could do before visiting this site).
Is this a normal feeling? Do polygraphers typically do this to attempt a confession of some sort - even after the polygraph? I mean, I now know that the only real benefit of polygraphs are to "trick" someone into a confession, but
do they typically behave this way if you pass it? I hope I have been thorough enough. Let me know if there should be any other relevant information I forgot to add. Thanks in advance.
BOTTOM LINE: The manual on this site descibed my polygraph experince pretty much word for word. It is a valuable tool and should be read to avoid the tactics polygraphers use. I wish I would've read it before my exam.