quickfix wrote on Mar 25
th, 2006 at 5:38pm:
Not guilty of anything? How about a lack of good judgment. A 27 year-old man playing checkers online with a 13 year-old girl. Talk about a red flag!! There's more to this story than what you've let on. Thank God you were denied.
What are you folks on? Playing checkers online with a young girl is a red flag? Good lord, that says much more about you than it does about Onesimus. What we're seeing here is projection - you're projecting your fears and self-suspicions on someone else.
I don't play online checkers, but when I was younger (around 14), I played online chess frequently, as I had participated in and won several junior league chess competitions. I played guys and girls ranging in age from 13 - 70! Is every adult I played with suddenly a pedophile or pederast? How callous of you to assume so!
As for the legal jargon you're throwing around, it's clear none of you know what you're talking about. One does not "plead the fifth" in a bloody employment application.
The relevant language is no one "shall be compelled in any criminal case to be a witness against himself" - I assure you no court has or will ever construe this to apply to an pre-employment context. In other words, leaving stuff out of your application, or simply refusing to discuss a matter may open you up to employment bars or some statutory penalty - but the Fifth Amendment has nothing to do with it.
Finally, Onesimus' case, I suspect, is much more complicated than we - possibly he - knows. All we have are a few alarming letters (one actually conceding (!) misconduct on the part of the examiner!) and the story. Attacking Onesimus like vultures is really unjustified and unhelpful. Do not be so quick to judge.