I agree with you totally, lincoln.
I took my first poly about 8 or 9 years ago. It was a pre-employment "test" for a job with an armored car company. At the time, the "examiner" told me that I was hiding something about knowing someone who was a drug dealer. It set me off so bad that I went straight to my potential employer and told them this guy was full of shit. I got the job anyway.
I swear to God, up until this past Saturday when I found this website, I had carried this around with me for all of these years. It was something that would give me pause every once in a while and I would try to figure out what I could have possibly been thinking about at the time. And now I know it was all just bullshit. Pure, simple bullshit.
In a way it makes me mad that I had been "had", and at the same time I feel stupid for being so naive. In any case, I know your game now, bitch, and that's most of the battle right there. Trickery, deception and lies are the only cards these scummy pieces of worthless flesh bags have to play, but I've got knowledge. And from what I can see, I'll be on the righteous path the next time I sit down with one of these guys.
I'm not trolling for crap, but I'm sure that's what I'll get. But that's ok. Because all of the responses I have read from the pro guys remind me of what one of my police academy instructors told us the other day when we were doing building searches, and that is that distraction is a great way to move from place to place. It's the same with these guys. Rather than give straight forward answers or rebuttles, they distract you with bullshit. I've seen everything from, "oh, you hurt my feelings" to, "how can you prove that you didn't do what you said you didn't do?". I swear to god, it hurts my head to even think about it.
Umm, sorry to hijack your thread. But I feel much better now.