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I will be taking poly to save my marriage

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qtpass New User Offline Posts: 2 Joined: Aug 17^th, 2003	I will be taking poly to save my marriage Aug 18^th, 2003 at 9:53am	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	This week or next, I will be taking a polygraph in order to convince my husband that I am not lying to him about my sex life. I have made some mistakes in the past, but he doubts whether I have "fessed up" to all. I really don't want to lose this marriage, and if I can pass this test, I believe we will be able to move forward. I am very nervous after reading this site about whether or not I will be able to pass. Please help me. qt


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Mr. Truth Very Senior User Offline Posts: 194 Joined: Aug 4^th, 2003	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #1 - Aug 18^th, 2003 at 6:21pm	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	Don't take it. There are bigger trust issues involved than the fraud of polygraphy can resolve for you. What if you "fail" the test? Taking the poly in a situation like this reminds me of this saying: The best thing you can do when you find yourself in a hole is to stop digging.


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Saidme Especially Senior User Offline Posts: 311 Joined: Jun 11^th, 2003	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #2 - Aug 18^th, 2003 at 9:30pm	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	If you need to pass a polygraph test to convince him of your honesty, maybe you should just move on. If this guys gone this far, I doubt seriously if you'll ever convince him.


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Canadian Crusader Senior User Offline Posts: 80 Joined: Jul 8^th, 2003	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #3 - Aug 18^th, 2003 at 10:46pm	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	Finally something we can agree on Saidme. Don't take the test. It will be a colossal waste of money and there is the distinct possiblity he won't believe you even if you "pass" the poly. If you can't trust each other based on your word then in my eyes you two don't have enough of a relationship worth fighting for. Plus you have already said you made some mistakes in the past (cheated on him??) so the relationship must not be that great. Move on. Sorry.


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Human Subject Senior User Offline Posts: 73 Joined: May 31^st, 2003	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #4 - Aug 19^th, 2003 at 1:15am	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	Saidme wrote on Aug 18^th, 2003 at 9:30pm: If you need to pass a polygraph test to convince him of your honesty, maybe you should just move on. If this guys gone this far, I doubt seriously if you'll ever convince him. I'm so puzzled that you didn't stick to your guns on this one. Why is this an exceptional case?


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septic_tank Guest	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #8 - Sep 13^th, 2003 at 6:04am	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	Here's an idea: stop cheating on your husband. Hopefully he'll wisen up and file for divorce before you make any more "mistakes"....DUH.


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Robert New User Offline Posts: 5 Joined: Feb 28^th, 2003 Gender:	Re: I will be taking poly to save my marriage Reply #9 - Sep 17^th, 2003 at 9:01am	Mark & Quote Quote Print Post
	Qtpass hey don't listen to that crap. Saving your marriage is important so give it all you can. Unfortunately the polygraph is not reliable enough to prove you are telling the truth. I encourage you to be honest with your husband and share the information you have learned about the polygraph with Him so he will know about its lack of validity. You and your Husband could benifit greatly from a good qualified marriage counselor. I wish you all the best. Best regards Robert

	"I believe it is an established maxim in morals that he who makes an assertion without knowing whether it is true or false, is guilty of falsehood; and the accidental truth of the assertion, does not justify or excuse him."&&&& Abe Lincoln
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