Joseph, As promised, here is what I make of your situation, given that I only have your side of the story. You mention that Mary came to your house on almost a daily basis, yet when talking about the day of the alleged assault you state she hadn't been to your house in at least a month. However, given this you still felt compelled to state that you found her visitis annoying and uncomfortable and you were finding more and more excuses to not invite her in when she came knocking. Not real clear on this, especially if she hadn't been over to your house in over a month. You mention that you "do" have a moral compass, but what you have now is not really at issue. What about 1993, when you were 22 years old? You mention that you were able to recognize all of Mary's problems and that you empathised with her due to your own high school experiences. This sounds like a rather mature attitude for a 22 year old who was young and naive enough to falsely confess. You mention that you thought Mary was pretty, however you were not sexually attracted to her, that she was not your "type". By your description she was a pretty girl, who was obviously attracted to you, and you were an immature 22 year old who did not appear to have many, if any, serious relationships. Your "evidence" relating to Mary's having lied about being at your house that day is compelling. It certainly does not bode well for her that she stated she told your neighbor and he beat you up, when if fact (as related by you) this did not occur and your neighbor verified same. So where does that take us? One might say it's possible you really wanted to act on some feelings for Mary, however there is a strong indication you were actually turned off by her, and one would have to believe these thoughts would not impact any type of physiological testing nine years later. Is it possible there is some bit of information about yourself that you are not providing since you do not see it as being relevant to the allegation made by Mary; yet whenever the topic of Mary and her allegation is brought up this bit of information comes to the forefront? If so, do you believe that this bit of information, if known, would prevent you from obtaining a career in law enforcement? These are personal questions, and you owe me no answer to them! For Passedbutfailed (Rick), You got me buddy! I'll see you at the next JTTF meeting. Since you know me I guess we won't need any introduction, but will you do me two favors before we meet? One, wear a red tie so I'll know who you are, and two, please tell me what the JTTF is, and when and where the next meeting is. I don't want to miss it if I'm suppose to be there. Also, SFFO/SSG & LAFO/HRT? OK, color me stupid, it wouldn't be the first time, but what do these stand for? Please tell me so I can pass on your greetings to the "boys", and also so I can contact someone about why I haven't been receiving my paychecks. If we were playing "Hot/Cold" I'd say you must be wearing some serious cold weather gear right about now. Try again. Batman
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