evi1919 wrote on Aug 2
nd, 2002 at 9:15pm:
bottom line, could her months of interrogation and questioning him about me cause his anxiety to be so acute that he wouls "fail" those questions?
ABSOLUTELY YES!!! The polygraph as it is commonly used is at best a nervousness detector. Anyone can psych themselves into failing a polygraph "test", or the process can be a little more subconscious. OTOH, anyone can psych themselves into
passing a polygraph. It all depends upon what makes you nervous. Are you afraid of being accused? Afraid the polygrapher can read your mind (one of the only set of circumstances under which the polygraph might actually detect lies, IMHO)? Afraid of losing your job or not being hired? Afraid of actually getting a job? Too self-critical? Do you doubt yourself? Do you tend to think of yourself in a negative light, and look for reasons to fail? Afraid of reacting?
Any psychologist worth anything would agree that all of the above, and more, can cause someone to react to questions in a polygraph. The test is
voodoo, bunk, quackery. Belief in it is founded on the same grounds as astrology, and its practicioners are members of a quasi-religion.
I would also be suspicious of any confessions resulting from a polygraph, as well. As was noted recently in the New York Times, a healthy number of confessions obtained through poor interrogation techniques (the polygraph is essentially an excuse for interrogating someone) turn out later to be false.
Quote: or, as i suspect, was i a convenient repository for his own guilt about whatever betrayal he was REALLY up to such that it would attach to polygraph questions referencing me?
Another possibility is that he could have reacted to the questions because he was attracted to you at one time or another, etc. There are
innumerable reasons why he might have reacted to the question, and IMHO your interactions with him have given you
vastly more information regarding the type of person he is and what he might do than could be read on a polygraph.
Quote: i would love someone to help me out here, because even if my pal allows our friendship to resume, it will always haunt her (a staunch believer in this questionable "science") that he failed. according to the facts, i need to understand what happened with this test, since if this "expert" was right, i really did spend the past year in a steamy relationship with this virtual stranger--maybe I was sleepwalking?
plz help me salvage a really important friendship... evi
I've heard that "lie detectors" are rapidly supplanting horoscopes as the popular method for determining whether someone is a good person to date, is cheating, etc. It seems polygraphers have found a new way to mess up people's lives. Both you and Broken appear to be victims of this nonsense, and I would expect we'll start seeing quite a few more here in the future.
Please refer your friend to this site, and have her read "The Lie Behind the Lie Detector".
Skeptic