My wife told me she was a virgin when we met in 2010 and 2 weeks ago her cousin dropped a bomb on me when she told me that my wife went to a hotel 1 day with her ex bf 6 months before I met her. I asked my wife and she denied it at 1st but then the next day confessed to going to the hotel and having her ex bf try to put it in but he couldn't put it in was her story. I have had that happen to me at least 4 times with girls when I was in my teens we all have failed sex attempts stories. When I said to my wife that I would message the guy to find out she yelled 'if you message him its over' of course why would she get upset if she had nothing to hide. Long story short she agreed while insulted to take a Pholygraph and failed, we got in the car and she said 'I know the test results is there but I know my body and he didnt put it in' What to believe? I should add that we we had sex she was in a lot of pain 1st time and there was blood on the bed the next day