Jeffery wrote on May 27^th, 2005 at 4:29pm:

You really should take people's advice here.  Passing a polygraph (which you may be able to do if you correctly use CM's) won't be the best thing for your relationship.  She's obviously hurt by what you did and continue to do (not judging, but based on your post you admint to lieing and she demands a polygraph to see if you are truthful).  She obviously thinkd what you've done is pretty serious.   God luck working things out with her.  But I'd stay away from a polygraph.  Even if you pass, what does it really prove?  If your relationship is at the point where you are lieing and she is demanding a polygrpah, passing a polygraph won't help. So my unsolicited advice:  (echoing anxeity guy) "DON't TAKE THE TEST" and.. STOP LIEING TO HER (if you want a healthy relationship)

Jeffery,

I appreciate your input.  From what I have read on here and TLBTLD, I've concluded that the lie detector is a total waste of time.  Unfortunately she doesn't think this way and is totally convinced that it is correct 99.99% of the time.

I've already begun counselling to correct my problem with lying to her, and from her exact words "by passing this test we can start on a clean slate."  

I've decided that this is the person I want to spend my life with and am willing to change my ways for that.  If I tell her I won't take the test then she is going to think I am lying about it all.  It seems to me my only options are leaving, or taking the test.