heres the deal my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test so he can find out if i am gulity of cheating on him or not (which i am) i was going to come clean until he told me if i did infact cheat its over for good... i defently do not want that at all i have been with this wonderful guy for 5 years, i need to know if there is anyway of me getting answers to be inconclusive or passing for that matter. i am a pretty paryonoid person to begin with, i can already see my self failing when they ask my name please help the test is approaching fast...

shopper wrote on Apr 1^st, 2005 at 4:13am:

heres the deal my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test so he can find out if i am gulity of cheating on him or not (which i am) i was going to come clean until he told me if i did infact cheat its over for good... i defently do not want that at all i have been with this wonderful guy for 5 years, i need to know if there is anyway of me getting answers to be inconclusive or passing for that matter. i am a pretty paryonoid person to begin with, i can already see my self failing when they ask my name please help the test is approaching fast...

Speaking on behalf of the test concerns, this website is not a place where people are welcome to come and find out how to lie and pass the test. So if that is what you want to do, then you should go elsewhere.

With respect to the cheating, cut the guy some slack and get out of the relationship. He doesn't want to be with a cheater. Avoid the test, avoid causing your boyfriend continued grief, and avoid giving him STDs from your other affairs.

The 'I will never do it again' is irrelevant, as your boyfriend has obviously made apparent.

Seriously.
Randy

Shopper,

You should steer clear of polygraphs period--they are unreliable even when one is honest. For once, I agree with Randy--sort of. You should tell your boyfriend the truth. It sounds like he already knows it or else he would not be asking you to take a polygraph.