Let us know how things turn out. I am sorry you had to go through the test. If he didn't pass, it would affect your relationship in a negative way.

I kissed a married guy, and I felt bad about it. What I learned from that though, is that a lot of men are vulnerable.

Rather than harping on the past, and what might have happened, take time to make a better future. Women who take married men are stupid, because sooner or later they will get re-acquainted with the ripples of the thrown pebble in the pond.

Take care and let us know how things turn out. We are behind you. Don't give up too easily. Being single/divored sucks.
Nina