Kona, you are right.  I was no angel and I did stupid things in the past.  As for being a drug dealer, I was not that.  Yes, I sold minute amounts of marijuana to my friends on a handful of occations as a highschooler, but that does not make me a drug dealer.  Believe me, there are people out there that are much more deserving of the title.  I am not making excuses, however, because I know I did wrong.  As for taking drugs, I am done forever.  I do not even drink anymore.  I never did like taking drugs or drinking.  I feeling of "not being in control" was not enjoyable to me.  As for Mom, I was never a bully and I am not looking to pick on people.  I understand your fustration in that your son failed the polygraph, but if you think you know everything about your son and everything your son has done and every decision he has made, then you need to follow the Yellow Brick Road back to reality.  Tell your son to get his balls back from you and go out there and get the law enforcement job is he wants it bad enough.  I got my job so I am happy. ;D