Good on you Zena

You seem to have grasped the ultimate concept that the rest of the personally pained liars cannot, be honest and accept responsibility for yourself.  Many complain as formerofficer do, saying he is good now (despite continuing to lie about his past to his employers).  I say the proof is in the pudding.  Your behavior defines who you are right now.  Those who choose to lie are liars.

BW