You are a true light.  Lutheran Social Services is providing counseling for other members of our family.  The singular harm caused to our family members by this separation is the separation itself.  I can inquire via the counselors who are already providing ths service to the other family members.  

If any know of such persons in Washington state who do such work (risk assessments related to "potential" sex offenses), let me know.  Thanks to beech_trees for this informative response.  Any names people?