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Hello, I am currently 24 and online dating a 17 year old who is turning 18 in February. I have been disqualified before from 3 different departments. For masturbating to her during FaceTime calls. She has also sent me nude pics before but I have deleted them because I know that what I’m doing is wrong. The last time we have done the FaceTime call was on June of 2020. The only reason why I’m still with her is because she lied to me about her age about 3 years ago. I should’ve known better, but it seems that we’ve grown to love each other. This is the only “child porn” that I’ve seen I’m not attracted to any child pornography and have never watched it besides this incident. I can back this up with a polygraph exam if I have to. My question is will this forever keep me away from a career in law enforcement, or when she turns 18 will this not be a disqualifier because back than my background investigator wanted to speak to her but she wasn’t 18 at that time. I just need someone to shed some light and information on my current situation. I’m kinda bummed out that I got DQ’d from a department that I’ve actually wanted to work for. Other than this I’m a hard working citizen and go to work day in and day out.